Anonymous said: what if i dont find someone better
The important thing is not to judge people on their faults/likenesses to another person. Every person is different, I may be better at writing than some people, but that doesn’t mean I’m ‘better’ than they are.
Anonymous said: Ok so i had sex w my boyfriend for the first time last month and then i took the day after pill soon after as i was paranoid even tho we were super safe. We had sex weeks after being again super dafe w a condom and him pulling out prior to cumming but i have yet to get my period even tho i got it last month. Should i be worried ?
If you want to, take a pregnancy test, however I doubt you have anything to fear. Anxiety, weight loss/gain, exercise, diet, and other medication can all delay your period. If you feel this stress is going to be a regular thing, consider a method of contraception for yourself
Anonymous said: this isn't sexual, but I have psoriasis on my scalp, and I think I'm getting it on my nipple? How do I help it?
It’s probably best to talk to a doctor or skin specialist about it
Anonymous said: I'm female & I was watching porn earlier today. & there was this really hot orgasm scene which made me horny, & I came. But I was only watching the video, I wasn't even touching myself?!
Non-contact orgasms are totally possible - like sleep orgasms.
Anonymous said: was giving my boyfriend a hand job and it was my first time giving one but before he was about to cum my arm got tired so he never did I felt so embarrassed and he wants me to give him a blow job and I want to too. but I've never done it before and we are both virgins
If you don’t feel comfortable yet, don’t do it. There’s no rush to get into anything. If your arm gets tired, that’s totally understandable - there’s nothing wrong with him finishing himself off if he feels the need to
Anonymous said: I have never had an orgasm before but I want to have one. But I also want to wait for a boy to give me one instead of myself. I am 17 btw. What do most people do?
Whatever makes them comfortable. Exploring your body is a great way to start figuring out what you like - that makes being sexual with somebody a whole lot easier, cause you can let them know what works
Anonymous said: I'm bisexual and have only ever slept with girls before until I met my boyfriend. We've had sex a couple of times but I don't feel like I'm doing anything right. I'm scared he's going to dump me because I'm not good enough. I love him and I just want him to be happy and to make him feel good but I'm scared I'm not turning him on enough.
Why not worry he’s not good enough, or not making you happy?
Relationships are about equal give or take, not just a girl pleasing a guy and making him happy. If he’s dating you, why wouldn’t he think you’re good enough? Would somebody who didn’t think you’re amazing even date you in the first place?
Anonymous said: P.1 This guy I have history with recently contacted me about a month ago saying he missed me & wanted to hangout and stuff. So all month we've been talking and seeing each other and it's been great. Last weekend I spent the night & asked why he's talking to me again and he said he likes hanging out with me. He's literally the sweetest guy when we're together it's unreal. When I left he kissed me & said "text me". I did that night but never got a reply. Tried again last night but nothing.
P.2 I have a real hard time believing that in the few hours after we hungout he “lost interest.” He was being real affectionate with me and not distant and all. I’m waiting to see if maybe he comes around but if not then ok. I’m just curious why he’d do that given how things played out? I said absolutely nothing hinting at dating or anything that could’ve scared him either. :s
There’s always a possibility he hasn’t seen/gotten around to the text, but it does seem odd. Perhaps try to contact him one more time and if you get nothing, write it off as a nice experience and move on?
This isn’t purely sex related, but do any followers have feedback on taking a ‘break’ in relationships? And if so, how did it go for you?
Anonymous said: just had my first sexual encounter with my boyfriend I gave him a hand job and it felt so uncomfortable and it's really scaring me because I did it with another guy before and it wasn't weird at all
If it doesn’t feel good, you don’t have to keep doing it