Anonymous said: What does it mean if you open a condom and there are like globs of lube on it? Is it expired? Affected by environmental conditions?? Thanks in advance!
Most likely it’s been affected by heat and would not be safe to use. For future reference, don’t keep condoms in wallets, pockets, or anywhere near a heater!
Anonymous said: For the person who asked about the guy finishing himself when he gets close, it may just be that he doesn't want to cum inside the condom. Lots of guys find that to be more messy when taking off the condom than cleaning up themselves quickly after. :)
Anonymous said: Confession: after every time i fool around with my boyf, I'm always much more hungry than before.
Anonymous said: While having intercourse(wearing condom of course), is it normal for the guy to get out when he gets close and to finish himself? Idk i think he doesn't want to finish inside bc he doesn't like the mess in the room.
If he hasn’t had much experience with sex, he may find it difficult to orgasm through sex. This is a phenomenon that has become more apparent in recent years, basically because guys have too much experience watching porn and wanking that they can’t get off any other way. Your best bet is to talk to him about it
Anonymous said: im a male and i took a long time to orgasm and it was weird because it took much longer than when i just masturbate
Well, it is something new and unusual, as well as being about trust and being vulnerable with your partner
Anonymous said: I was hanging out with my best guy friend, who's crazy about me. We were laying on his bed watching a movie and he starts exploring me. He barely touches me before I deny him real access. When I leave, I go to pick up my 16 year old ex, I am 20 btw.. and we go to a secluded area in his neighborhood. We end up making out hot and heavy and then masturbating together. I didn't get off as well as I hoped. I ended up going home and waking my hubby for hot fuck session. Naughtiest night of my life.
Anonymous said: okay so i lost my virginity to my friend and it took me ages to cum, like we were having near constant sex related activity for maybe 3 or 4 hours and they came a whole bunch of times but it took my forever and is that like a kind of common thing? for peoples first times to be super long?
It is very difficult to say because I don’t know your gender. Males tend to orgasm quite quickly their first time, whilst females either never do or take a very long time too. In addition to that, pure penetration doesn’t get a lot of women off - clitoral, anal play, nipple play, etc, all comes into it
Anonymous said: On giving blowjobs before sex(but not making him come), is it best to give the bj and then put the condom on or to just give the bj with the condom on? I'm asking to understand if there are any risks of the condom not staying on or slipping, and yes I do understand the risks for oral without protection, so thanks!
There are no risks with the condom coming off, provided it’s the right fit, though it might taste a bit odd doing it with it on. That said, better safe than sorry!
Anonymous said: when being fingered(not clit) I have never had the 'need to pee' sensation, but it feels good still and still shake. Does this mean i just haven't been close to orgasm? THanks for the advice! such a great blog!
Not everyone feels the same, generally you will only have the needing to pee sensation if your g-spot is being directly and repeatedly stimulated. If it feels good, keep doing it!
Anonymous said: I recently had my implanon removed. The nurse told me to not get it wet for 24 hours, & I could remove the pressure bandage within a few hours. But everywhere online & people who have had it said the bandage should have stayed on for 24 hours. Will this do anything or just make it bruise more, since I removed it after five hours?
If you are prone to bruising, you may get a bit more bruising than normal, but other than that there’s no major issue